In this episode, we navigate the differences in generational perspectives and discuss the art of intentional engagement to inspire compassionate awareness within conflicting points of view. Join us as we delve into the power of the J.U.S.T. Philosophy, exploring how conscious communication can foster understanding, empathy, and harmony across generations, leading to profound personal and societal growth.
[00:00:00] Aaron: Welcome to the complete conversation. We really, really appreciate your support and interest.
[00:00:06] Alexander: Absolutely. Thank you everyone for being with us and continuing to support.
[00:00:10] Aaron: So, I wanted to start off this part with getting into the generational trauma. I feel like it's something that we talk about a lot, but I don't know if we ever really get into dissecting real world generational trauma. I think it's more of an individual thing in the way that we bring it up, but if we can look at the generations all the way down, maybe in like, the last two or three and getting into the younger generation, and maybe offer some insight into why they're asking the questions that they are and why they're looking at work as something that they don't want to do or don't want to invest in. Whereas the older generations, that's really all they did. And it's funny because that's how energy works, and we're going from one extreme to the other, I would say it's about three generations, three or four-ish. But, the older generations, it was mostly a nuclear family and the man was out working 40, 60 hours a week and the mother took care of the child. And then, feminism came in and now the way men and women approach the world is they're equal and women are in the workplace just as much as men, so now there is a 50/50 as far as income goes. But then the question is, "Who's raising the children?"
[00:01:26] Alexander: Mm-hmm.
[00:01:26] Aaron: And I know when I was a child, there were kids that would go home, at like age 10 to 12, and they would go home to an empty house after school, and I think there is a lot of consequences because of that, that I've seen in my generation as we've gotten into our thirties. But, that was, kind of, the in between to where we are now, and you have devices raising children where parents aren't really raising children because it's mostly, I would say, the majority now are single mother or single father homes. And so, now the child is put in front of a TV or given an iPad at a young age, and that's there to keep them busy. Of course, this is just looking at it, I'm not saying or projecting any of this onto individual people listening, because you may not have done it that way, but just as a general look into why certain questions are being asked now, why certain energies are brought in with certain generations, and of course there is an astrology aspect because there are certain planets that take a long time to move through signs. And so, I think those also make their imprint on generations.
[00:02:38] Alexander: Yes. It can seem like it's getting harder for people to be clear in what they want to do, but I think that's been a ongoing thing for many, many generations. I think that it's shifting to where the pressure to just do something just to do it is getting less and less, but this still comes down to no matter what the generation is, how fulfilled a person wants to feel. And I think that's what some of the younger generation is saying is that, yes, I don't see any of the older generations feeling fulfilled in their work, but another big variable here is self-sufficiency. There's a lot of the younger generation that still want to have aid from their parents, but not do the things that their parents suggest for them to be self-sufficient. So, this whole art of being an individual, I'm in full support of it as long as you have the self-sufficiency part, and normally that does mean that there's something that you develop that you do.
[00:03:37] And listen, anybody that even does what they love doing, there's still aspects of making a living part of that, that they don't necessarily enjoy. And I think that's what some people miss, is that if you're truly making a living doing what you want to do, like a lot of athletes or a lot of performers out there, they have to do interviews to get certain types of money from certain people. And they don't always want to do the interviews. They just want to play the sport, but that's part of it, the post-game and pre-game interviews and those types of things. So, many people have this idealistic view of something that they would just enjoy doing to make their living, and I think it's healthier to have a balanced view to where, you know, hey, I've got to do something in the area of making my living that I'm probably not going to enjoy doing, but if that's connected to something I enjoy doing, then that will be more beautiful than it not being connected to something. This is still a very challenging concept for most any generation to truly grasp of how can I make a living provide for myself and my family and enjoy doing, the majority of the time, what I enjoy doing? And, I've seen just from my own experience that anything that you start charging money for becomes work at some point, and that doesn't mean that you can't find elements to enjoy about it, because you can, but that's where that balance comes in. The willingness to chop the wood and carry the water, so to say, so that you can build the house rather than just wanting the house built. And I think that's roughly what this conversation is about is just, somebody truly feeling fulfilled in their life, normally comes from some type of investment.
[00:05:26] And I can break it down to just as easy as a physical workout, and how I've been very open about working on the physical level isn't necessarily my favorite level, but the feeling after doing something that you push yourself to do through discipline, it's the opposite of self-loathing. You feel so good about yourself. And, that's really, in this conversation, what I would like for people to be able to feel, not just contentment and fulfillment to be happy, but this contentment and fulfillment of feeling that you got out of the day what you could. It just wasn't wasted. And tomorrow's going to be a beautiful day because I'm going to get as much out of that day as I can. That doesn't always mean doing more necessarily. The J.U.S.T. Philosophy and the Wise Whys here, we talk about the consistency over long periods of time. This development and bringing contentment to one's life, I think does begin in the self-assessment and truly finding out who is your Authentic Self. And many of our families didn't support us how we were brought in astrologically. It's not that the parents did something wrong, it's that they just didn't know. And, my parents certainly didn't know how to support me in my astrological design, to be very creative and very musical and to have this depth of interest in studying the human makeup. None of that was supported in my family, but they supported me in many other areas. And again, this is where many children, against their parents, it almost becomes like a war rather than working together and how can we find the middle way that may be better for both of us?
[00:07:07] Aaron: Can we bring in subtle energy and maybe have you dissect how the subtle energy played a role in the last three generations and how they've changed over time?
[00:07:16] Alexander: Yes. From the subtle energy standpoint, you know, subtle energy begins with perception. And normally over two or three different generations, the perceptions will shift but through a lot of conflict, many times. There's conflict, there's polarization that happens. So, that happens in our family unit just as it happens in our governmental unit, in the way that the media controls. You know, different views from a parent to a child can polarize, like I've said, but sometimes, every now and then there is actual communication and conversation that allows different views to develop. And then, maybe in that third generation of the child, in the optimal situation, they get the support from the parent and the grandparent because of that communication that the parent and grandparent was able to have. It is rare, but when I see it, I think it's a beautiful thing to see that the one true thing that we can count on is change. Change is the only consistent in this life as a human, but we fight the change so much. So, if we could see in these generational gaps that, no, change is a necessity. If we work on the change together, we're a whole lot more likely to be creating intimacy and closeness and connectedness or this change is going to be created no matter how much we polarize against each other.
[00:08:40] And so, this is where, setting our preferences aside many times, and being willing to listen to someone else's point of view, or taking it even deeper and setting your preferences aside and just saying, "Hey, let me look at myself from this unbiased form, from an astrological view, and see what my Divine makeup was and maybe where my strengths are and where my weaknesses are, be able to accept these weaknesses, which takes away self-judgment and self-loathing, and actually work on the strengths over here. And many times, that makes people feel better because there may be strengths that they weren't even aware of, but as soon as they start practicing them, they see how quickly they pick up on it, and that can help build a person's self-esteem.
[00:09:22] So, we're still stuck in a culture that is trying to figure it out with the mind, and I can't speak enough on all five of those levels, The Physical, Mental, Emotional, Energetic, and Spiritual or Religious, and how equally important all five of those are.
[00:09:39] Aaron: Yeah, those are good points and I feel like we could bring in judgment here and there's judgments from the younger generation on the older generations of how they lived, and there's judgments from the older generations on the younger generations. So, if we look at the older generation of working too much, if you actually communicated with an older generation, and ask them why did they work so much, I bet they would say they were trying to give their family a better life than what their parents had.
[00:10:08] Alexander: Right.
[00:10:09] Aaron: And that's the way that they were showing love. That's a whole lot different than, "Oh, I'm just working because that's what I was told to do". There's always a human element to, or a reason why somebody's doing it, and for somebody to be driven to work 60 hours a week, I assume that there's some sort of thing that they're trying to reach.
[00:10:27] Alexander: Right.
[00:10:27] Aaron: And it's not that they're just not doing it because they're programmed that way, and then the younger generations, you know, the older ones would ask, "Why are you so lazy?" And--
[00:10:36] Alexander: Well, maybe they're just interested in having fun rather than working. I've heard that as an excuse. But also, this gets into inspiration to a certain extent. Like, I want to honor my Mom and Dad. No, they didn't provide for me exactly what I wanted, but as an adult, I found all of that myself. But looking back at one of the main things that my parents taught, was work ethic. In my family, if you couldn't come to a family gathering because you were working, then you were just such a great person. But I didn't agree with that same type of work ethic, working the 40 to 60 hours a week and doing whatever the boss said, and that kind of thing. I had more of an artistic view of it. But see, where I did utilize, and this is what I want to suggest to the younger generations toward the older generations, is find something that you respect about the older generation, and then find a way to use that in your own way. I took my parents' work ethic, and what I did is when I got interested in self-development, that's where I utilized that work ethic. I'm going to show up every day and I'm going to put in a full day's work into my self-development work and dissecting, getting rid of family lineage, and all the so-called negative views and patterns of myself that I've picked up from other people throughout my life.
[00:11:54] So, see, I was able to take that external work ethic that my mom and dad utilized, to use that in my internal world, and still that reflects through a certain level of my external world. But see, I wanted it to reflect in my internal to where I saw my parents and my family doing a lot of external work, but they weren't doing any internal work, and I wasn't seeing any change internally. That's all that I wanted to shift in my family lineage. Let me take that work ethic, but turn it inside. Then it will be reflected through me, outwardly, a similar work ethic, but not to that extreme because I've utilized the majority of the subtle energy, so to say, in self-reflecting, my dissecting, and my correcting of patterns that keep us judging ourselves. That's what we call self-development work here in the J.U.S.T. Philosophy and the Wise Whys, and that was an example of how to take something external and morph that into something internal and still be able to honor those people and even be able to talk about it. Because if my family wanted to call me lazy in a situation where, like, for a long period of time, me and my partner worked 30 hours a week and we were raising two kids. And I just told her, "Hey, if we can't make our living off of 60 hours a week, we're living wrong". We were able to do that, and I feel like we had plenty, we did without material things, but we were around each other all the time. That was the trade off. So it wasn't that I was necessarily lazy, my family didn't understand how much effort the internal work takes, through discipline, meditation, and practices, and things like that. You have to have an ample amount of time to be able to do those practices. And again, everybody here isn't meant to be interested in the same thing, so that's where judgment's going to come from. You can handle judgment if you feel like you're on your path, but judgment from others, is just there to test you. "Hey, are you clear that you're on your path?", and let that go. If not, maybe they are urging you to get closer to your path.
[00:13:59] So I think that, hopefully, this whole podcast can be about giving people little inklings of ways to help their communication with different generations.
[00:14:09] Aaron: And a universal thread between all this generational judgment between them is, I mean, it's all friction. It's all resistance to how the world is now, or as it was going, and that resistance is never going to be quelled. It's never going to stop, so if you find yourself resisting the newer generation's way of looking at things, and from time to time, I have to say that I do have some resistance to some of the ideas and energies that they're bringing in. But again, if I can't find a way to resolve that friction, then I'm just going to be in a constant state of leaking energy. So, how can I, or how can other people out there who find themselves resisting, or not liking, or judging the way younger generations are doing things-- Because a younger generation is a whole group, it's not just one person.
[00:14:59] Alexander: Mm-hmm.
[00:14:59] Aaron: And you can just stop talking to them and cut them out. No, it's in the news, it's everywhere. You're interacting with all different generations everywhere you go. So, what can somebody with that mindset do? What's another perspective that they can bring in to help them see a different way if their overall goal, or intention, is contentment?
[00:15:19] Alexander: Well, I think one place to start is to realize that the more you need to convince another person of your view, the less clear you truly are in your view. This is what I see that happens many times when somebody says that they don't want to talk to someone about a certain subject because of the way that they see it is that they're truly not, either as educated as they feel like they need to be in the subject, or have the ability to explain their view. This is where I see a lot of people bring up subjects in conversations, but not be prepared to fully discuss them. This is very common in our culture, but a little bit of advice to help people in that is to see that that is an actual practice to do, to be able to be around other views that are opposite of yours, and to be able to be content and at ease and non-emotional in that. This is something I like to suggest to people to attempt quite often, because again, it helps you to understand where you sit in your view and gives you an opportunity of maybe you need to go study a little bit more on this to be able to discuss it a little bit more clearly.
[00:16:27] So, that resistance, as soon as you see that resistance, that's just the teacher to show you that, hey, there's something here. In the philosophy, we talk about the word acceptance, and we have described it many, many times as accepting someone's view or accepting a situation does not mean you condone it or that you approve of it. It simply means that you are going to stop the resistance to the fact that it is here. I can talk with someone that may not even believe in a higher power, and I work with all types of people that you could imagine. And see, I'm very comfortable to talk with a so-called non-believer or atheist even, because of how comfortable I am in my trust in that higher energy. What I have proven over many years is the more accepting that person feels, that has an opposite view, especially if they know it's an opposite view of yours, the more accepted they feel, the more likely they are to be willing to change their view.
[00:17:32] This is a lost art. The power of accepting is normally people are on guard when they're asked their opinion and when you can. Accept someone's opinion without it offending you or you needing to correct them, then you're a whole lot more likely to be able to help them to see a different view, and this is the power of acceptance. That again, does not mean that you approve of or are condoning, it just simply means that you're able to accept that there is a different view. The Second Pillar in the J.U.S.T. Philosophy is polarity versus duality. Polarity does mean that anything that was created, the opposite has to exist. Duality means that those two opposites fight to see who's right. The polarity view is that you accept that both of those views have to exist. So there's no need for me to carry resistance.
[00:18:25] Aaron: And you brought up having conversations about things that you may not agree with, and I don't know of a person who loves being in a conversation and stating something that they believe, and then having somebody, kind of, bite back and bring like, a negative energy or a challenge to them. I don't like being involved in those conversations.
[00:18:45] So, what you're talking about is like subtle energy and if we become aware of the subtle energy, we can almost become like a wizard in these situations where we can change and alter the way that we approach things and not have to have that happen to us. Because the stronger we stand in our statement of whatever we're saying, the more we're going to bring a challenge and if we're able to ease our energy and be okay with somebody else's view, then it's going to dissolve that person's energy or how strong they have to dig in or how hard they have to challenge.
[00:19:20] Alexander: Yes. And this is where I bring in that like almost any subject can be looked at the way that sports teams are looked at and favorite sports teams. Somebody can say, My favorite team is the best team is Dallas Cowboys. Well, my favorite teams are Pittsburgh Steelers are the best teams. Pittsburgh Steelers. See, there's a lot of variables in "best" and those two people can have completely different meanings of what "best" means. If you look at that, whether it's politics or it's religion or whatever it is, it can help to negate, for me, it helps to negate the need to be right. And again, anytime you need to be right, somebody has got to be wrong, and nobody, like you were saying just earlier, is nobody likes to be wrong, or nobody typically likes to be challenged, or their view to be challenged.
[00:20:10] So, if I'm discussing my favorite so-called sports team to somebody that I don't know who their sports team is, many times I'll say something like, "Yeah, in the past when I was very into sports and took it very personally, I really pulled for the Pittsburgh Steelers. But now I don't take that stuff so personal and I don't get so involved with it. So, who is your favorite team?" Then they can say any team they want, they can say that they're better than Pittsburgh, and it just doesn't matter. It doesn't affect me. And I've been able to see people take that into other areas that are challenging to talk about because why can't you have a view but still support somebody else's view? Even if it's a political view or whatever it is. This just isn't what our culture has cultivated. It's cultivated the duality view rather than the polarity view.
[00:21:06] I find it very interesting when I come across like a non-believer or an atheist, I love to say, "Please explain to me how you see like a passion flower was designed or the sacred geometry that's throughout the body and, and throughout, all over earth". And it's not that I'm challenging them in a negative way, I truly want to hear their view. Maybe they just say, "Well, chaos creates beauty just as well as it creates distortion." See, I can still accept that that's their view. I happen to see things in a Divine view, and it blows my mind and it can make me cry spontaneously when I think of the level of beauty that this plane projects. The thing is, is that I can talk about that beauty to an atheist or non-believer and be in the conversation about that beauty and not get angry or upset about how we came to enjoy that beauty.
[00:22:02] So, once again, I'm hoping, with this particular podcast, that this is helping people just to see some opportunities to heal some conversations. To be able to have some conversations and not feel like you've gotta be in defense all the time, and just because you accept somebody else's view does not mean that you're agreeing with them.
[00:22:23] Aaron: Yeah, I wanted to bring in purpose again and get into the three questions, because we haven't talked about it in a while, and I brought it up in the earlier part of this conversation where I talked about how it helped me define what was really at the root of what feeds me in this life. And so, maybe we can talk about how somebody out there who is feeling like they want contentment, but they're not finding it in life right now. And I feel like that is a lot of the younger generation, but even the older generations could. They may have been misled by their older generations and now they've worked their whole life and they're like, "Well, I was told that this would bring me contentment, but it hasn't. It just brought me a lot of work and now I don't even have good relationships with my family members". So, how can they utilize the three questions?
[00:23:12] Alexander: Yeah. The three questions to find our Authentic Self are who are you, What are you passionate about, and How do you exemplify that passion on a daily basis?
[00:23:23] And the "Who are you" is your name, like for many, many years of my life, I went by Scott Tuttle. Alexander is my middle name. And in my mid thirties, I switched to using Alexander because of the way that that resonated with me so much more than the name Scott. So, that's important of like, what you want to be called, because you hear your name more than any other word throughout your life. But the deeper part of that is, who are you on that astrological or Divine makeup? We utilize the Human Design and the Destiny Card system to help you understand your personality type, your higher self, and then your energetic makeup and how you interact with the world and others around you. And see, that first step of really getting a deeper understanding of who you are can start to make drastic shifts.
[00:24:14] And then it turns into the next question is, "What are you passionate about?" For me, it was being of service to people. Helping people become more intimate in the relationships, helping people become more understanding of themselves and how to optimally function in this world, and then how to release past traumas that they've picked up throughout their life. So, that became my passion, and that's all I wanted to talk about, that's all I wanted to be around.
[00:24:41] And then, the third one is, if you're going to find contentment, then more than likely in this life, you're going to find a way to exemplify what you are passionate about on a consistent basis. How I exemplified my interest in being of service to people is through my private practice, through holding private and public sound journeys, by doing energy work and sound work in my private sessions, by working on writing the book that I'm working on, on numerous classes that I've taught. And so always when I'm out there in the public eye looking to be sharing information that I'm passionate about.
[00:25:20] So, that's just an example, and so now to break that down so all you listeners can hear it one more time is Who are you? What are you passionate about? And How do you exemplify that passion on a consistent basis?
[00:25:35] Aaron: And if they're curious about their astrological or energetic makeup with the Human Design or the Destiny Cards, they can reach out to you--
[00:25:42] Alexander: Absolutely.
[00:25:42] Aaron: --for a Human Design chart and reading, right?
[00:25:46] Alexander: Yes, [email protected]. It's one of my favorite things to do in my private practice is introduce people to themselves, and many times it brings a lot of confirmation, but it also relieves a lot of self-judgment.
[00:26:01] Because a lot of people are empathic and they pick up on other people's emotions and that kind of thing, but they don't understand it fully. So, when you're able to point out that, hey, this is in your actual design, and then not only point it out, but be able to give useful tips on how to manage that optimally, can really, really change a person's view of themselves, deeply.
[00:26:24] Aaron: So in this last part, I wanted to bring in a few things that I feel like are all tied together. There's wants, and I think this drive to get what we want leads us to situations where we're trying to get it as quickly as possible or in ways that are going to avoid some of the work that it seems like other generations have put in. So, that's where manifestation has kind of come in, and it really, I want to say, a lot of it started with "The Secret" and that was kind of in my generation when I was probably in my twenties is when I first saw it. And, it's kind of morphed into a larger way of looking at the Law of Attraction, but I did want you also put it in a way of, it seems like people are trying to avoid friction also. Friction in the way of doing the work to get the thing that they want.
[00:27:17] And, if we bring in the Human Design here, there are five different types that we could possibly be, and there are certain types where manifestation in certain ways may work, but it may not work the way that we all want it to work for all of us. And this was something that I had an experience with, when I had the t-shirt company earlier on, when Alexander and I were doing the podcast, it was kind of started around the same time and I thought if I just started it, and maybe it was more of a hope, maybe it wasn't a thought. But I thought that somebody was going to like it and then people were just going to start buying them, and that was going to be like a huge part of my life was making t-shirts and being creative that way. But, then once I learned more about the Human Design, I learned that I'm a generator, and that's not really how I am set up to be in this life. And even in my astrology, I'm not really set up in my life path to have something that's going to generate a large amount of money. I'm more of a consistent builder of energy over time, and that's how we've ran this podcast. And I've been able to see an optimal way of what I could call manifesting for me.
[00:28:31] Now, if we talk about it, all the possibilities out there. If we are talking about how to "quote" manifest something, it's not as easy as people probably think it is.
[00:28:41] Alexander: Well, no. One of the basic laws of subtle energy is getting out what you put in. This is seen quite often in relationships that, you're only going to get out the level of intimacy that you put in, and that takes vulnerability. Which means that you're likely to get hurt, but if you're not vulnerable, then you're not going to reach those levels of intimacy.
[00:29:04] It's very similar with working out with the physical body. If somebody wants a certain cut style of body, then the consistency, effort of working out most every day will, over time, bring that, typically, for the majority of people. But not doing it haphazardly, not maybe doing it two or three times a week only.
[00:29:23] You know, in the J.U.S.T. Philosophy, there's been a saying we've used for so long, of Gradual changes over long periods of time equals lasting results. And we put that under any of the Five Levels. The more that you practice non-judgment, and practice faith and trust and gratitude, the stronger your spiritual level is going to be. Same thing energetic-wise about areas or people that you put yourself around, that the level of discontentment that you have to deal with, all of that over time strengthens your energetic field.
[00:29:58] So, the friction in life is very important to strengthen us and there's always been people that have won the lottery that seems like there's situations that happens in people's lives where they get something with very little investment, but it almost always comes back around to be a huge cost down the road. So, I like to suggest be willing to pay as you go, and then you don't have to pay this unimagined amount at a certain point in time. So, whether you are working on the Physical, the Mental, and the Emotional, and the Energetic or the Spiritual level, whatever you want to get out, even if you look at it as manifesting and say, "Oh, I'm going to manifest a new car this year for myself," then all I'm suggesting is be willing to go out there and put in the effort every day to be part of creating that to happen.
[00:30:51] Those that don't want to put the effort in to get the reward, they're going to pay the price themselves anyway, so this isn't something that, once again, too many people need to get upset when they're trying to maybe help a younger person to see that, because they're just going to see it. That's just the way that energy works. And I see that too many people are expending way too much energy trying to help, trying to teach other people rather than just allowing them to learn from life. They could still be supportive, once again, accepting, "Oh, I see that you want this with very little effort. Okay. Well I'm looking forward to seeing how that works out for you. You have my support," from a general supportive standpoint, rather than saying, "No, you're going to fail. This don't work," blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
[00:31:39] So, really again, this is weighing how you want to be in someone's life. Having a different view, but still supportive or, "No, I've got a different view, therefore you don't get my support and now we're at odds with each other". So, I think a lot of this stuff in generational conversations can be seen over time, and then some things just can't be seen differently. Like, somebody that's worked 60 hours a week their whole life, they're probably not willing to see that you can raise a whole family working 30 hours a week. See, they don't want to accept that that is real. So most of the time, they will argue and fight that point because they need it to be true because it's the truth that they've led.
[00:32:21] Aaron: Yeah, and I think everywhere we look, we are reminded that it takes work to get what you want. I mean, there are the few examples, like you said, the lottery winner, and maybe they're part of the 9% that are manifestors, according to the Human Design. Maybe they're not. Maybe it's just because somebody has to win because it was created. But like you were saying, there's a cost to everything, so it may not be exactly what people think it is. They only see the good part, not how would that change everything else in your life if you all of a sudden came upon a lot of money.
[00:32:53] Alexander: Right, because it would change every relationship that you have, and that's what I think, many times, is the cost that most people aren't aware of, winning something like a lottery, because it changes the way everybody sees you right away. So it's going to change the way that they interact with you. So I see that it just helps to accept that law of polarity and that everything does have a cost, and that if you want to gain something in this world, be willing to put forth the effort and show up every day on a consistent basis and allow it to be developed in Divine timing. So hopefully the subjects we've touched on today, my main interest really is for people to be able to have conversations, learn from each other, and not go into dualism or duality, but remember that polarity view and be more accepting that the opposite view has to exist of whatever view that you have. So, sometimes when we're looking to help somebody is to show them acceptance of their view, even if it's different from yours, because that may open the door down the road for you to share more and more of your view to possibly help them in the way that I think most people want to be helpful.
[00:34:05] Aaron: And is that what you would suggest if somebody wants to put this episode contents into practice right away?
[00:34:11] Alexander: Yeah. I think the very first thing I practice is having that conversation with someone around a subject that you know they feel differently, and see how long you can just stay in a loving and peaceful vibration without having to go into trying to fix them. This is so beneficial in raising children, but it can certainly be practiced around adults quite often. I know it's challenging. It's a different concept. People feel that it's important for them to stand for what they stand for, and again, that's going to attract a certain amount of resonance and it's guaranteed to attract a certain amount of friction as well, and here we're talking about how to move in this life, utilizing the friction to make you stronger, but not allowing it to overcome you and tear you down.
[00:34:57] Aaron: All right. That will do it for this episode. Hopefully you got something out of that, whether you are an older generation person or a younger generation person or in the middle like myself.
[00:35:06] Alexander: [laughter] Much love to everybody and just keep the conversations going in a loving manner.